Rob and Kristen - 06 Feb 2012 - with a fan...
I could shout it from the rooftops, flood twitter with my excess of excitement...
Even flood a live journal or tumblr or two, but why waste the energy on something that was bound to happen...eventually :-)
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| You see me grinning, you know i am laughing at you... |
All those nerdy little bloggers with their little quotes of 'they haven't been seen in a while - Rob is single.
BWHAHAHA!!
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| Nerdy little bloggers - they're everywhere!! |
Not to mention Kristen and her date nights with any actor other than the tall drink of water, she has been with since...oh 3 years now?
Count them, because i know it keeps some people up at night, as they try and wipe out each year as if it never happened. Regardless of the time frame (i know i don't obsess about it) whether it be pre Twilight or post Twilight, the outcome is still the same...
Regardless of 'Chatty Cathy' (and i wish she would stop promoting this love story, every single time she has a movie to come out) - please Cathy enough!!
Regardless of all this talk about NR and her excessive need to speak, brag or simply droll on about Michael Angarano or Oregano, as he is affectionately known by in the fandom. The 'give me attention please, because my marriage during the Breaking Dawn promotions did nothing to promote me, my husband isn't doing anything famous enough to warrant attention. And everyone is making movies and having babies - EXCEPT ME!'
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| It's an art i practice a lot... |
I find it constantly amusing how so many people love the drama, absolutely revel in it or so it seems. There is not enough in the world for them to worry about, they have to take other people's relationships on board to make their lives more meaningful? Rob and Kristen can't have a normal life it seems or at the very least attempt one, not when bat-shit haters try desperately to pull them apart. Making up shit just to give them something to cling onto, some little crumb of hope that the 'golden couple' are no longer golden and that Rob can finally breathe now that he's away from HER!
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| Yep, still there and still messing with their minds... |
Rob Pattinson doesn't know what he wants in life. He is brainwashed, or threatened into dating Kristen Stewart. I could also say he is 'pussy whipped' but haters don't like the idea that 'their man' is being lead around by an absolutely stunning, humble, funny and intelligent female - and he knows what side his bread is buttered. In other words; why would a hot blooded, twenty-five year old, give up a young woman who absolutely adores him for being who he is, and not by how many noughts are at the end of his bank balance? Or have some celebrity gossip phone number on speed dial?
I asked for patience, because Rob and Kristen are not going to go out of their way to 'promote' their relationship purely for attention. But what it has done in some small significant way is bring happiness back into the fandom.
The lack of sightings had brought a lot of the R/K supporters down. Those that desperately needed to know that 'they were OK' that happiness was still there in a ocean of marriages and relationships (strictly celebrity speaking at this point) falling apart or coming to an end.
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| Happiness is looking at Kristen's proud, loving face... |
The silence we had, those lonely days, weeks or months (depending on who was counting and why?) I loved, seriously i did.
I loved the quiet, because the quiet to me did not mean disaster, did not mean there was something wrong with Rob and Kristen. As you know, Hollywood doesn't sleep and gossip is gossip and can be sniffed out, quicker than Scooby Doo looking for a Scooby snack. So if anything untoward had happened between the much loved up couple...chances are, it would have been found out by now. Much to the chagrin and constant need by the nonstens, haters and ever loving Rob lovers.
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| The list is long my friend, of those who believe they stand a chance, with Rob... |
So, the sun is shining in 'RobSten-land' and all is right with the world. Fans can breathe a sigh of relief, as they throw back their winter duvets and shrug off the post 'Breaking Dawn' blues. Life is good once more. No more crying how much 'they are missed' no more worrying when one is seen out without the other...
No more spending hours gazing over the lovely photos of the BD premieres; smiling and missing the happiness of Rob and Kristen - when they were last seen out publicly together (stressed out papped photos do not count)
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| So cute, my cold heart melted...just a little... |
The Breaking Dawn DVD is merely days away (for the US) and someone, somewhere has a copy of it already (sniff) hence the lovely little images and gifs that are floating around in cyberspace. This one in particular caught my eye and i simply had to post it. How cute is that little nose rub between them? Completely natural and not scripted. But then again, most of what has been leaked from the BTS of the movie seem very natural and unscripted.
Bill Condon has been very open and honest about 'how easy' it was for him to film the scenes between Rob and Kristen, based on their personal circumstances (and that doesn't mean public related, shindig of 'we are acting as a couple but really we're not') The fact that they have this 'personal' dynamic and slip on Edward and Bella, almost like second skin - has allowed the transition and love that is reflected in their performances of the star struck lovers, incredibly believable. For some it's like looking at an actual real wedding and not one acted out in front of cast members or dozens of camera men and technicians; all moving around to get the better angle of the happy day - and that also included the honeymoon (favoured part by some)
For me...
I love seeing the relationship between Rob and Kristen when it slips unconsciously into certain parts of the movie. When you have followed two people 'respectfully' for several years and have enjoyed the movies, separately and together - you see a big difference in their performances with other actors. Rob seems more comfortable around Kristen and Kristen a lot more organic and trusting around Rob. They know each other completely and know how each other works. And that's not just from making four movies together - although that has worked greatly in their favour.
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| Rob and Kristen - naturally... |
Patience - is something people need. Patience to sit back and let things 'fall where they may'
Rob knows a lot about patience and as the proverb goes 'All things come to those who wait'
It's all about taking a deep breath; take stock of the situation and just learn to let go. Too many fans get their 'panties in a twist' worrying over something that may or may not happen, or nothing at all. It's easier to believe the drama and refuse to understand that 'normal life' is not about drama, it's about living each day as it comes. Rob and Kristen may be Hollywood's 'brightest, richest, shiniest, trendiest and indeed sexiest, couple and co stars' right now, but that's not how they live their lives. The only drama they have is 'where to eat and not get noticed' or 'whose turn is it to buy Bear dog food?' Other than that...
Patience...is a virtue that some people need to learn.
T.
