Rob and Kristen - Je Ne Sais Pas Pourquoi...

Rob and Kristen - perfect!
So...what have i missed?
Apart from the noise, and boy has it been loud. Apart from the bitterness of little hags, who still maintain they are 'Rob and Kristen' supporters, but belittle and try and bring down blogs that have posts devoted to the couple (tongue in cheek)

Apart from the sighting of Kristen for a SWATH photo-shoot and the crying or snickering (depending what side you are on) of a slim and not pregnant Kristen, as she appears for the first time in broad daylight since her stint at 'Norm's Vintage Guitars' store just before Christmas.
One sighting proved to be the catalyst of name calling, pointing fingers and down right childish (should have been left in the school-yard) of people making fun of others, because supposedly they were pleading for a 'golden child' to come out of the couple.
The talk of the town...
Let me get some things straight...
I am not one to enter into people's ideas or assumptions, based on speculation or side line comments. If people believed that Rob and Kristen allowed reality and fantasy to spill over, that's their prerogative, and I personally could not be bothered to drop them out of their little bubble or indeed their opinions. People are entitled to their own opinions, some were mainly just toying around 'light hearted humour' that i don't believe anyone took seriously - it was just speculation and yes in the context of a social networking site such as Twitter, maybe should have been kept to an instant messaging service privately. As far as i am concerned, the two people in the centre of that little debate will have children IF and WHEN the time is right and not by point of dagger, from a contingent of females who clearly want the HEA story that their alter egos 'Edward and Bella' got. I hold my hands up and say, i saw a lot of it on my time line but democratically chose to ignore it and not enter into the debate of 'Is she or Isn't she?'
I roll my way and forge my own opinions and just because Rob and Kristen have decided to 'keep their pretty faces' out of the spotlight, doesn't mean they are hiding something, other than choosing to ignore the drama and get on with their lives, which is as always - together.
BUT, and i LOL at this still now as i sit and type.
Bonjour Mademoiselle Kristen...
No sooner had Kristen finished up a photo shoot with the ever handsome Chris Hemsworth and Charlize Theron, she was hot-footing it across to Paris, for what appears to be some kind of 'photo-shoot' possibly to do with Balenciaga perhaps? And the crows descended, the hags began stirring their poisonous brew of bullshit and fuckery, with the 'Rob was seen out with a blond' story once again. Is it me, or do haters of Kristen Stewart like to place their 'misunderstood' idol with anyone who has the colour 'blond' because Kristen is a...brunette? Well, technically she is not a brunette if you want to talk split ends LOL. Her natural hair colour (as she says so herself) is not that much dissimilar to Rob's - more light mousy than actual dark brown. BUT i suppose the hate brigade need something to focus on right? They need to have some justification that when the cats away, the mouse will play and no sooner had Kristen left US soil and touched down on French - Rob was being a naughty boy again...
Why go out for a burger when you have steak at home?
To quote a well known comment from the late Paul Newman, when asked about the longevity of his marriage to actress Joanne Woodward. A man, when satisfied at home with commitment, friendship, trust and love - deep rooted love, why would he want to cheat? The only common ground i see as to why so called 'Rob fans' believe he would step out on Kristen, would be if something went terribly wrong in their relationship and they grew apart. But then again, i don't see cheating as being the answer - to quote Rob 'I can't understand why people cheat?' If a relationship comes to a natural end, then no one really is to blame completely. It takes two people to create a relationship and honestly, it takes two to break it apart. So the only reason i see this deep rooted need to 'split Rob and Kristen up' are narrow minded, insecure, had a bad experience and all men are cheaters people who have to push this delusional reason onto others.

Kristen and Rob have more in common than some people want to believe. They are happier away from the spotlight on their lives, they are most certainly not the 'fame hungry, PR couple' some haters would want you to believe. If that had been the case, then they have had several months since the release of Breaking Dawn P1, to get their faces out there as much as possible. I don't know why (clue for the title) haters and Rob fans want to break a perfectly happy couple up, when all they really want is the quiet life? Rob showed his face at the People's Choice Awards - sans hair and Kristen eventually (when the time was right) showed her face for a photo-shoot. Work needs to be done, promotion for both of them right now has been pushed to the forefront. They have had a few quiet months together avoiding anything public but now it's back to the other side of life. Bel Ami is gaining publicity and with Film Festivals looming on the horizon, we will see Rob once more, charming the crowds and colourfully blushing and babbling at all the attention he will receive. 
We have all missed his pretty face...
There is speculation they will attend the 'Oscars' *presenting separately* but will they be arriving together?
There is hopeful speculation 'On The Road' is to hit Cannes this year, which means more visits to France for Kristen.
Rob has 'Bel Ami' promotion which will make him busy for a few months, then 'Cosmopolis' not long after.
Kristen will soon be seen promoting her much loved role as Snow White for 'Snow White and the Huntsman' this summer. Before they both come together to promote 'Breaking Dawn Part 2'

They have plenty to get on with and i would assume, happy not to have any movies in the pipeline to make...just yet. After all, they have both been working steadily since 2008, the last thing they want is to burn out before they have even had a chance of enjoying the success of all that hard work.
The happy couple is just as happy in real life.
Fans need to understand the fine line between morbid curiosity and down right frenzied obsession, when it comes to a couple whose lives should not take over the better part of theirs. Fans need to keep that line always intact and appreciate that their opinion doesn't really count for much, when it's not their private lives they are trying to control. Despite all the love and appreciation in seeing the lovely faces of those they support, there needs to be that distance, that as much as it's nice to see Rob or see Kristen, they do not need to be joined at the hip to prove their relationship is real. Or wear objects or items of clothing to further prove they are together. If you are one of those who need concrete evidence, every single time Kristen or Rob step out alone - then you will never be convinced they are a couple and should stop with the constant need to be 'proved' right or wrong. My title in translation is 'I don't know why?' and that is in it's essence how i feel about those who hate them, because they are a couple, love them that they are and need to be proven one way or the other.
Powerful and dangerous - a winning combination...
They are a couple, get over it or move on.
T.
*slight typo in the post header, has now been corrected - thanks to Lady Fallow*
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